Normal people still care about people they are mad at. Their are some people though who honestly don’t know how to do that. They take anger and fighting to a whole new level……Its almost a way to make the other pay. Those people generally don’t care about other people but more about themselves.
When you are fighting with someone you care about you need to remember you are on the same side. So many people lose site of that.
Here are a few ways to fight clean:
- Remember who you are fighting with. This is someone you care about and even if you are mad at them you still care about their feelings.
- Remember why you are fighting in the first place. Keep it specific. No need to make it bigger than it is.
- Remember how to fight. You care about this person and their feelings. No hitting below the belt.
- Remember what you are fighting for. Choose your battles wisely. Some fights are not worth an entire relationship.
“All relationships go through hell, real relationships get through it.” Unknown Author
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